The big question for so many of us: where will our child live?
Dan invited parents to join an ongoing discussion on Facebook with the AutismOne folks. You have to join facebook for that. There is a separate website for their adult residential services think-tank.
Also, Mark and I were inspired by the story of Bittersweet Farms, which we first learned about in the early 1990s. A big part of the reason we moved our family from the big city to a small farm was the beauty of what these people were accomplishing and hoped that some day, we could replicate it.